The funniest thing in life is that it never goes the way u plan it…. No use trying to organize or discuss bcoz the only thing in our life that remains constant is surprises… yeah it may sound really stupid to a person having a 9 to 5 job...n slogging his ass over somebody else’s work… I believe that each day v get a chance to change the course of our life…everyday a moment passes by which if v care to notice n ponder upon may turn our life upside down… hmmm… it may sound pretty optimistic… but trust me opportunities knocks our door each day… its just that vr too busy behind our closed doors that v don’t bother about the new miracles that cud happen to us.

I wonder if u have read the famous book “who moved my cheese??”...well if u haven’t… let me summarise it for u… some of us are too safe n secure being where we are… we think that no matter wat happens our present life will remain the way it is… for example if ur in a job… once ur settled n ur getting a comfy salary… u start relaxing… u think that this is gonna last forever but nothing lasts forever… the point is that we should not just accept change but also c the bright sides of it. Having a heartbreak gives u the opportunity to realize wat ur real emotional needs are, loosing a job makes u realize which direction ur career is shifting… every situation is an opportunity of growth… I guess every management guru says that... but it also depends on our perspective.

Mourning over something, which is already lost, is the worst type of time waste… I knw that it really hurts when things don’t turn out the way u expect them to… when ur dreams come down with a crash n all ur left is with memories of the good n the bad times… but life has much to offer… n I m a firm believer in destiny… I realize that everything happens for the good…bcoz every single thing has its reasons...

A month ago I was very upset…I had not been able to match my expectations n on the other hand I had lost that one person I really cared about. I clinged on to my past… I just dint wanna let go… even though new things n new people were waiting for me on the other side. Then I cudnt take it any more… bcoz it was too tuff to live with so much of hopelessness… Suddenly as if to wake me from my depression… a flash of lightening struck me… I realized that I was been given opportunities to prove myself n I had succeeded in most of them… I was happy with myself after a looooonnnggg time. Slowly I also realized that there were many people who truly cared for me… that they really wanted to see me happy and be there for me. Even though the wounds haven’t yet healed properly n also sometimes I m haunted by my own imperfections but I realized one thing that had I not fallen the first time… I wud have never pushed myself the next time… I wud have just been stagnant… n secondly had I not lost that one person in my life… I wud have never been able to realize the importance of other people in my life whom I had taken for granted.

I have written a lot…  but in the end… remember, “Every curse has a hidden blessing”!