So finally m back... ages since i wrote my last blog. Recently i ran into one of my best friends.. just like other days.. v had our usual round of gossip After sometime, the conversation took a serious turn and she asked me.. "amishi, what is the most important thing in a relationship?". I thought for a while and i said, "feelings?!". She replied, "Trust.. thats the most important thing..".

I didnt understand it at that moment, but now i do. Truly, trust is the most important ingredient of every relationship. If u dont trust someone, then the relation is utterly useless bcoz suscipicion erodes every relationship. Marriages break bcoz of a lack of trust, friendships are lost if they are not bounded by the strong threads of trust.

Lots of times, we end up being stuck with someone whom we love a lot but we arent able to trust that person. We are always worried, insecure about the future. But we dont want to break away also... bcoz the feelings that u have are really very strong and u cant even imagine a single day without that person.

So i have a question for all of u, "What do we do when we arent able to trust the person we love a lot.. ??" , pls do give me ur views on this..

Waiting for ur replies!

adieu